Wednesday, June 23, 2010

The Law of Conservation of Love !


The events depicted in this post are fictitious. Any similarity to any person living or dead is merely coincidental.


Girl (03:04:56am): Happy Valentines Day dear!
ME (03:06:42am): Thnks, wud u b my valentine?
Girl (03:08:00am): r u serius? (She expects me to be kidding, 3am at night!)
ME (03:08:45am): m vry serius abt it.

"Love could neither be created nor be destroyed, but it could transform from one form to another.
and sometimes transferred too

Look around yourself and if you could, look over the whole world; You would hardly find someone on earth who hasn't been a subject to this law. Thats the ubiquity of this law.

I'd have really liked to start with a cliche of the origin of love from a mother's womb and then how it gets transformed over a period to many different forms of love however, my friends demanded that I write about the only INTERESTING love this world has. That wasn't the only demand; Unfairly to me! But what better way to explain The Law of Conservation of Love.

Once upon a time……ah, never mind.

People call it the first love, though its logically wrong considering the cliche i spoke about earlier, this is a major transformation of love that a person has in his life. So, it does make sense to call it the first love. I took sometime to realize the first one. Going against the crisp and instant form of love at first sight (like instant noodles), I took almost 3years of friendship to transform to the next form of love. It broke out at 3am (O yea, i've been nocturnal for long) on 14th feb 2005 and in the most romantic way you could ever imagine; SMS! Short Messaging Service really helps when you want to keep it real short ;-)

Girl (03:04:56am): Happy Valentines Day dear!
ME (03:06:42am): Thnks, wud u b my valentine?
Girl (03:08:00am): r u serius? (She expects me to be kidding, 3am at night!)
ME (03:08:45am): m vry serius abt it.
< censored > (Naah, no romantic scenes.. This is stunts censored)

Yes, its true that the transformation of your love doesn't coincide with transformation of you partner's. It took exactly a year in my case; worth a wait!

This transformation takes you to an entire new world. A world where you find her everywhere and in every girl you see. This is when you realize (even though you knew her through 3years of friendship), that she has the most beautiful eyes in the world. You try to fit her in all the ambitious plans that you had for your future so that she could happily co-exist with you (forever love :)). I, being a human, wasn't an exception. I did find her the right fit in my plans. And if at some places she couldn't fit it; Change the plan! This makes her the reason for what I'am now. And above all is the golden moment thats almost associated with this transformation. Yes, it happened to me once!

Girl (01:14:36pm): Hi dear, i'm so srry but i'm gttng engaged.
ME (01:15:02pm): whtt???

As I'd said earlier, the transformation of your love doesn't coincide with that of your partners. In fact, mine hasn't transformed yet. I'm going through the second phase of this law. Yes, the transfer! But hers was about to get transformed into a new level of love. Not to blame her because we knew this was the fate. This transformation of love is considered the strongest with the social elements supporting it to give strength. This, i believe is after which the cycle starts again. Remember the mom, womb cliche?

On the other hand, after so many painful days (the regular "I can't live without you days!"), the transfer of my love did happen. I realized; rather re-defined what the transform of love, that i'm currently in, means to me! Its just to keep someone happy until she is with me. This eased the route to the next transfer of love. Apparently, another friend of mine had a break up and there was a need to keep her happy. An attempt to achieve this led to the transfer.

Transformations and/or transfers of love is inevitable, if not consciously, it happens within you without you realizing it. Though i've now decided (as always) to go against the nature and cease the transformation and transfer of my love to next level, I hope she gets her transformed soon.

Now, I'm quite happy with the best form of love that I've ever felt. Of that of Friendship. It may not be as interesting as its next level however, it is very important to me!

"I owe a lot to those eyes, because of which I've achieved whatever i have now. Even today, whenever i'm low; whenever i'm depressed, those beautiful pair of eyes motivates me to get up and achieve new heights in life."


  1. Beautiful........
    The best part is how humorously you have told everyone who has gone through this all to take things positively and make them understand what actually love and transfer of love means ;)

    Waiting for your next blog

  2. hey da... loved da last two lines.. hope she reads tis blog of urs...

    comin to da overall lit it sounded 2 me sometig lyk a Raavan movie.. sometig some wer was missin. I dont know....

    egalee porutha verakkum love na room

  3. Interesting read ... enjoyed it... and i beleive its straight from the heart .. keep it going.

  4. WOW.. Well I think she does not know what she missed on... :(

    Lovely way of putting up the toughest part of life.. I like the spirit..:)


  5. i love the time* of each conversation :)..jus kidding.. very entertaining read and keep up ur good work..